Tuesday, April 22, 2008

" Do children always suffer when both parents are working??"

Nowadays , There are so many parents working due to the demand of having better and comfortable lives. However this cicumstance may affect the way of their childre's lives either in positive ways or negative ways.
The first point that says that children are suffering when both parents are working is due to the lack of attention from their parents. This is because most parents tend to think that their children need better and comfortable lives the most but at the same time they also have forgotten that their children also need their love. When parents are working, they usually have less time for their children and thus makes their children think in a negative way that their parents don't love them. this might cause them to 'hate' their parents and therefore it is hard for them to obey their parents' rules as the children feel dismal and gloomy as their parents don't give full attention to them. thus this shows the suffering of the children.
The second point is that the children might get bad influence form their friends. Hiw can this happen? This is because as they don't have their parents at home to share their problems, they will go to their friends. It is no problem if their friends and don't have social problems. But how if their friends are from those who are having negative manners for example smoking and drug abuse. this may cause the children to resort to drugs or cigarettes and so may affect their future and health simultaneously. This is because some children cannot think maturely that they start to think in a negative way. Thus this also proves that children are suffering when their parents are working which leads to negative effects.
The third ponit is that the children may also get influenced form the sophisticated media masses that are provided by their parents. This is because when their parents are working, they are feeling so depressed that they cannot go anywhere as their parents are not at home. Therefore to release their tension.they will watch television or playing games. but bear in mind that television may give bad influence to children they are not monitored by their parents when they watch television.
There are some solutions to solve the problems. The first one is that although parents are busy to work, they may spend their weekend with their children so that their children don't feel depressed.
Apart from that the parents can send their children to any benefitial class. For example music classif their children are interested in music. Apart form that they can send their children to any places which have any sports activities that they like. This will also make them healthy.
Thus parents must be wise in dividing their time for their children and work.

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